Comments on: Changes that affect friendship. http://saanamsmind.com/2009/11/changes-that-affect-friendship/ Peek into the mind of two Complicated Individuals Wed, 03 Mar 2010 12:53:13 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Shona http://saanamsmind.com/2009/11/changes-that-affect-friendship/comment-page-1/#comment-1074 Shona Fri, 13 Nov 2009 20:13:30 +0000 http://saanamsmind.com/?p=1235#comment-1074 Been contemplating this in my head for so many days about the same thing... See lot of change around me and in myself these days.. Dont know whether its a broken heart in friendship thats talking in me ..I am not sure.. But for me indulging myself in any kind of relationship now is scary.. I was talking to one of my friend just yesterday and she felt the same coz like said once bitten twice shy...For me there are these other factors that drifts you from your friends.. Burning your hands too many times in a friendship..Lieing in a friendship.. You can give so much in any relationship and when that doesnt work and people seperate you from them, it does leave a scar in your heart... So the tendency is to stay away from that friendship.. People do say you shouldnt be scared to live thinking of death.. Its same in relationships too.. You shouldnt be scared to have more friends thinking of heart break.. But in reality, it cant be applied all the time.. I am a very touchy and sensitive person by nature.. So to me something that breaks does leave a bad scar and I go in a shell not to make more mistakes.. So I guess that drifts me sometimes from my friends too...But all said, I still cherish some friends who mean my world or are part of my world... And all I can say is that atleast this friendship stays with me till I am gone from here and I leave some foot prints in their hearts...God Bless you di.. Been contemplating this in my head for so many days about the same thing… See lot of change around me and in myself these days.. Dont know whether its a broken heart in friendship thats talking in me ..I am not sure.. But for me indulging myself in any kind of relationship now is scary.. I was talking to one of my friend just yesterday and she felt the same coz like said once bitten twice shy…For me there are these other factors that drifts you from your friends.. Burning your hands too many times in a friendship..Lieing in a friendship.. You can give so much in any relationship and when that doesnt work and people seperate you from them, it does leave a scar in your heart… So the tendency is to stay away from that friendship..

People do say you shouldnt be scared to live thinking of death.. Its same in relationships too.. You shouldnt be scared to have more friends thinking of heart break.. But in reality, it cant be applied all the time.. I am a very touchy and sensitive person by nature.. So to me something that breaks does leave a bad scar and I go in a shell not to make more mistakes.. So I guess that drifts me sometimes from my friends too…But all said, I still cherish some friends who mean my world or are part of my world… And all I can say is that atleast this friendship stays with me till I am gone from here and I leave some foot prints in their hearts…God Bless you di..

]]> By: Saanj http://saanamsmind.com/2009/11/changes-that-affect-friendship/comment-page-1/#comment-1076 Saanj Fri, 13 Nov 2009 16:29:10 +0000 http://saanamsmind.com/?p=1235#comment-1076 i understand and realise the very thing you feel Shona and like you said it scares the wits out of you and asks you if you can trust anybody at all. Scars and hurts that have a residual pain in your heart can make you keep that relationship a lil away for the fear of being burned again. It even makes you wary of every person you come across .... Maybe again its time that makes you feel comfortable yet again. i understand and realise the very thing you feel Shona and like you said it scares the wits out of you and asks you if you can trust anybody at all. Scars and hurts that have a residual pain in your heart can make you keep that relationship a lil away for the fear of being burned again. It even makes you wary of every person you come across …. Maybe again its time that makes you feel comfortable yet again.

]]> By: Saanj http://saanamsmind.com/2009/11/changes-that-affect-friendship/comment-page-1/#comment-1075 Saanj Fri, 13 Nov 2009 16:26:16 +0000 http://saanamsmind.com/?p=1235#comment-1075 Hmmm yup nother angle to friendships between the different sexes. The chemistry creeps in ... sometimes with the hormones playing up and that can cause rifts too. Hmmm yup nother angle to friendships between the different sexes. The chemistry creeps in … sometimes with the hormones playing up and that can cause rifts too.

]]> By: adesi http://saanamsmind.com/2009/11/changes-that-affect-friendship/comment-page-1/#comment-1072 adesi Fri, 13 Nov 2009 07:41:42 +0000 http://saanamsmind.com/?p=1235#comment-1072 i think as human nature would have it, especially if two friends are each of the opp sex, it kinda becomes habitual that you get attached and then friendship doesnt linger on the same grounds. my best friend was my first kiss :) so you can imagine how that turned out! i think as human nature would have it, especially if two friends are each of the opp sex, it kinda becomes habitual that you get attached and then friendship doesnt linger on the same grounds.
my best friend was my first kiss :)
so you can imagine how that turned out!

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