Silence heals but it also kills. A dear bro told me this and as I thought over this I realised there was a lot of truth in this sentence. Isnt communication the key to solving so many issues in any relationship, be it verbal or non verbal? It overcomes so many obstacles because it stops the other person from making assumptions and making up their own mind about things.
Each day when we wake up, we get up to some new thoughts, new actions, circumstances that are new. In each one of these there is a form of communication… a way to reach out and speak what is in our minds.So does communication help even if we are depressed , troubled and keep ourselves quiet for fear of being misinterpreted, disliked, unhappy, uncomfortable or just more withdrawn from others? Some would agree some would not.I would say its good to shut up sometimes . Specially when you know your words can cause a lot of havoc and hurt and its better to keep quiet and keep your thoughts to yourself, but sometimes letting the other know what bothers you may even help the relationship strengthen.
Good communication can move mountains and a lack of it may break relationships.More often we see long lasting relationships dont need words, just a few actions may speak so much more than words. But we also see that a communication breakdown can break up many relationships as well , for a lack of communication stops the other person from relating to you and there is a gradual shut down of the understanding between the two and this can cause a rift in relationships.
Communication can be very powerful as we do see that some words can be a ‘life altering’ experience for many. Your words may make someone change their attitude or way of looking at life and so may do a lot of good as well.It may give someone a sense of hope, a ray of sunlight in a dark tunnel that may change the way they live.
So Good Communication or communicating is an important aspect of relationships for they can make them, break them or just help manage them. Words are a powerful tool and should be used very careful. A lack of words are as powerful as they can make or break relationships, so they can heal or kill it. Communication can truly have an impact as to whether a situation is overcome or not, thus creating the opportunity for communication to be able to have such a power, such a strength and faith that a mountain of strife can be overcome and dealt with, no matter what.At the same time sometimes silence is the best way out when you feel words can cause more damage.
The right way would be to use both effectively and the right place as they can have some big life altering effects on relationships.
