I miss you when something really good happens, because you are the one I want to share it with. I miss you when something is troubling me, because you are the one who understands me so well. I miss you when I laugh and cry because i know that you are the one that makes my laughter grow and my tears disappear. I miss you all the time, but I miss you most when I lay awake at night and think of all the wonderful times we spent with each other; for those were some of the best times of my life .
Missing someone…..???
Having lost some of the few people I have loved in my life, I realised its very hard on a person when you miss someone so badly specially when you lose that zest for life . Was reading up so many articles on it I came across the following paragraph that kind of summed up what I was going through .Here is what that person had to say.
” Have u ever missed someone and felt terrible because u think that he/she doesn’t miss u? Missing someone is a terrible but at the same time, sweet feeling. U will be sitting around wondering if u meant anything to him/her. Thinking if he/she ever cares about u.Rushing to the phone once it rings hoping that it’s him/her.Looking out of the window hoping that he/she will surprise u by appearing downstairs. Sitting in front of the television but thinking of him, missing the final episode of your favourite show. Laying on your bed, thinking of the last time u were out together. Thinking of how nice it will be to sit under the stars again,talking about everything,your dreams, plans, future.Logging on to the internet hoping to see him/her online.When u realise that he/she isn’t online and did not return your page,u will start worrying if he/she
is okay.Missing someone is a way of growing up i guess.It exposes u to loneliness.It teaches u how to cope with being lonely and let u know that there is actually a feeling known as emptiness.Sometimes it feels good to miss someone.U know that u really care and u indulge in the feeling of loving/caring for him/her.But missing someone and not knowing if he/she is feeling the same is terrible. So tell someone you miss them when you do ,if you can.”
The person who wrote this perfectly wrote about the bleak n hollow feeling of emptiness you feel when you miss someone. It can take you down the spiralling path of feeling depressed and unhappy. I would say , instead of faking the smile ,give in to the tears, cry it out and let your emotions through so as to heal. It removes the grief you hold within, and helps cleanse your mind of the sadness. It doesnt take away the longing or the love, but helps you cope better with the bleakness of the situation without making you feel bitter.Loving someone – even if it does not last – can become a source of experience and strength to treasure, if you learn to release the grief regularly.Grief can linger on and on but your body is not built to take it. So instead take solace in the positive and loving memories and hold them close to your heart for a lifetime to cherish.
If you have lost the person to death , there is not much you can do about it. But if they are alive, it wouldnt take much to let them know that they are special and you miss them.Do it now for there is no time better than right now.
May 7th, 2009 at 1:17 pm
“I miss you when something really good happens, because you are the one I want to share it with”
I Miss You MOM!
These lines reminded me my loving ammi, who died recently.