Saanams Mind

Have you ever realized when someone lies, they aren’t able to accept the truth? When a person lies, it’s never once – it starts with a one lie but it just goes on like a cycle. To cover up one lie, the person just keeps going on and on. Often I’ve noticed when a person is lying, they don’t remember what they said to few different people on the same exact topic or situation. It’s easy to catch the liar this way. It’s easy to figure out the person is lying when they keep forgetting what they had said to someone. For example, if someone today tells me something about a situation, tomorrow the same person will not remember what they said, so they will make up something new. Hence, the lies just goes on and on.

When a person lies, they aren’t able to accept the truth. They think the other person is also stupid, so they just keep lying. What they don’t actually realize is that people aren’t stupid, they just keep quiet to see how low you will stoop. How far you will continue to go to cover up your lies. In fact, when these kind of people are told the truth, they run. They run from the situations, they say things that have no value. In fact, they start accusing others. It’s amazing what people will do to cover themselves. They think by accusing another person, they will get away. What they don’t realize is that, even if the Human beings don’t say anything, or if they don’t stoop to your level, God is watching everything. How far can you run? You will one day have to answer to not Humans, not the people you lied to or hurt with your lies, but to God.

When a person’s heart, mind and soul is clean, they don’t run. They don’t run away from the reality of situations. They don’t run from facing the people. In fact, they proudly face the situations. However, when a person’s heart, mind and soul is not clean, they start accusing others, they start making up things for their benefits and they start ruining relationships. I have always been told that it takes years to build a relationship but it takes a mili-second to break it. How true! When I get into any relationship, I give my 1000%. Whether it’s family or friends. I am not able to tolerate lies. I am not able to keep quiet when someone is being accused for something they have not done, nor do I keep quiet when relationships are being played around with. I am very outspoken – it’s a very well known fact to those who know me. I speak my feelings and I do it clearly. When someone teaches you to always speak the truth, be honest, instead of talking behind someones back, talk to the face…I do it. I have always been taught that. I do exactly that – except it gets too hot to handle for some people. They do not want to face the reality, they do not want to face the world with the lies they have told or continue to tell to fool people. For me, these kind of people are too into themselves. They don’t care about people or how it can affect someone.

I don’t keep quiet when my loved one is affected by such people. I do not keep quiet when the one I love is being hurt by someone who has nothing better to do in life than to boost their own ego. I do not keep quiet when someone I love is being played around with. I do not keep quiet when someone I love is being told lies so that someone else can cover up themselves. I do not keep quiet when someone uses another person, innocent person to take revenge. I certainly don’t keep quiet when someone I love is put in the hospital because someone is being selfish.

So if you lie, learn to handle it as well. If you don’t like being told the truth, don’t preach honesty. One should not preach what they can not follow themselves. Unfortunately, this cruel world is filled with people who love to preach good but don’t actually follow it. Don’t listen to themselves. So look into yourself first before preaching the world. Truth isn’t easy to handle, it does get too hot to handle when you aren’t used to telling the truth yourself either.

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