Saanams Mind

Does humor help making life seem easier than it is? Does laughter make a difference to how you look at things and lighten whatever load you can carry? Of course Wit always helps in making one feel better as it has a lot of positive energy it generates.It makes every situation less tense n better to handle.

Moments that make you laugh so hard you have tears in your eyes are moments you take with you as memories. They are the ones long remembered. Relationships where laughter is often heard or shared are ones you treasure.So Humor actually is like a ‘lubricant of life’ , it smoothens the way many a times and helps diffuse so many situations .

I have found that when I laugh at myself I automatically diffuse so many things and lighten the atmosphere to make it bearable for me and for those around too..specially when I feel am in the verge of breaking down into tears It eases tension, fear and sadness too. Often used as a cover to hide true feelings of sadness n hurt or used to ward off closeness from others.Nothing better than laughing with the other rather than laughing at another.

Humor has to be used appropriately and in the right circumstances, to be used constructively.There is a dark side to humor too, when it is targeted at others .It can be offensive hurtful humor too ,of the sinister kinds where another is ridiculed, this can be extremely damaging as the the object of ridicule may lose all confidence. This is often called black humor.

Life without humor is dull and devoid of any color.A laugh now n then keeps us humble n grounded too.It lightens the seriousness of life n makes some burdens seem easier to carry.Life isn’t as beautiful if you don’t laugh every now and then.Without humor, life’s bumps become hills and harsh words start wars.Life that is so serious by itself gets a sparkle with a bit of humor in it.

So laugh, laugh till you have tears in your eyes. Find something funny about yourself, funny about your situations in life and laugh, Spread and share laughter and you do get a weird satisfaction for being the reason for so many smiles:)So laugh for …“Nothing shows a man’s character more than what he laughs at.” Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe.

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